TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS AMONG UNIVERSITY STUDENTS

Human beings especially the teenagers in universities want to be emotionally and physically close to each other. Life seems good when we share it with the ones we love but most of the time unexpected always happen and we end up being in toxic relationships.
Toxic relationship can be defined as a relationship where one partner controls aspect of the other partner's life and can be abusive in a psychological, physical or sexual way. The person who is getting abused or controlled can described as the victim. Causes of toxic relationship can be lack of communication, lies are told between the partners, lack of financial support which may make one partner to cheat.
    There are different types of Toxic relationship which includes: 1)Belittler
2)The Bad temper
3)The over depended and many more.
                Belittler
This type of toxic relationship an individual will constantly belittle you. He or she will make fun of youeven in front of your friends. They can make it look like a joke but in reality they are moving you. An individual will tell you that you are lucky to have them as no other person will want you. I had a male friend who was in such kind of relationship and things we're not working out. The lady would abuse the young of not being man enough to cater for their needs. She would blame him for any slight mistake he made and she would always remind him of the numerous times she had helped him. This made the young man to turn into something else.
   In the Bad temper toxic relationship  the individual will get angry on slight provocation. An individual may hurt or kill his or her partner when provoked like the murder case of ivy wangeci who was murdered by his boyfriend who had claimed that the deceased had cheated on him. Some of the university students would drown themselves to death.
The other example of toxic relationship is the over depended toxic relationship. In this relationship one partner will tell on the othe
r for advice he or she will accept whatever the partner offers. An individual is not able to even offer advice to his or her partner.
All in all a toxic relationship can turn into a healthy relationship if worked upon as everything needs alot of effort to be achieved. But I would advise you all to leave the toxic relationship for good as it is better to loose one individual than risking loosing your life.